I've recently been made aware that a man doesn't have to be a love interest to be able to hurt you!

Come on down - my sister's boyfriend!!!

There are so many words I could call him, some which wouldn't be harsh enough, but it's only fair to explain why.
Wormboy (I'll explain why later) and my baby sis (BS as opposed to LS who is also my younger sis but older than BS) met around early summer time last year and he is a complete and utter fuckwit. What I took to be shyness is actually just a bad case of rudeness. He slouches around the house, answering for BS, treats the world like it owes him a favour and is slowly suceeding in causing a rift between the closeknit family we once were.

So here is my list of some of the things he's done which toI feel only enhances the total shittiness of his character!
- He read her diary
- He makes her cry with his constant put-downs about BS not having a job
- He threatens that she will 'lose him'if she doesn't start doing something with her life (this coming from the sleeze who barely scraped a pass in his masters (52%) and now works a part-time retail job)
- He has 'treated' her to a couple of nights out and now has decided he wants her to pay him 20 quid a week for what he's spent!
- He moans about having to sleep downstairs when they stay here (me and BS share a room due to my bro having mine when I moved out) and yet they're not allowed to stay over at his together - I PAY RENT!!! IT'S NOT YOUR HOUSE!!!
- He tuts and sighs loudly if we walk through the living room at ELEVEN in the morning because obviously they're not ready to get up.
- He's given my sister chlamydia AND worms (hence the nickname)
- He has an unjusitfied problem with both LS and her boyfriend (who by the way have a healthy relationship and she's never in tears

This is just a few things. If I were to go on and on, you wouldn't finish reading for hours - believe me! The whole thing that grates on me the most is that BS doesn't seem phased by what he does and I'm starting to feel that it's not love she feels but an unhealthy neediness. Wormboy and BS were even slagging off LS on Valentines Night. How can a sister do that to another, we're just not that type of family and it saddens me. I don't have a problem with having  a go at both of them, I've never found it difficult to tell people when I'm pissed off. I actually think I like arguing sometimes (weird??) and I am suffering from a bad case of PMT so you can imagine I've been making plenty of comments of my own.
Now comes the part where I need the advice of you dear people! LS and my mom argue that we should just be there for BS whenever he's playing the part of grade A bastard again but I disagree. I think she needs some tough love! It's the classic case of an alcoholic. You can only help them for so long before they have to help themselves. I think it's a case of having to play good cop bad cop with her!
I honestly curse the day he ever came into our lives and pray for the day he is gone!!!