Secret Diary of A Barmaid

• My past, present and future self... From Barmaid2008 in Secret Diary of A Barmaid (135 days old)

  It's amazing how much fascination my old journals hold for me. I've kept one since 1995 when the ten year old me used to write about boybands and who was my best friend that week. I came across anothe… more

• New discoveries but old habits... From Barmaid2008 in Secret Diary of A Barmaid (185 days old)

  I have recently made a discovery about myself which finally puts all the old wonderings to rest - I am not girlfriend material.I can't do nagging, I'm much better being a blokes friend, I can't do nig… more

• Am I not making myself clear? From Barmaid2008 in Secret Diary of A Barmaid (209 days old)

  I have always considered myself to be an open-minded person.I take people as I find them and base my opinions on them by their actions rather than colour, gender or sexual orientation. But I'm startin… more

• Will I ever learn? From Barmaid2008 in Secret Diary of A Barmaid (238 days old)

  Ok, so admittedly I usually leave it longer than a week before updating you lovelies with another chapter of my life. However, seeing as this subject is in keeping with my last one (mucho drunken beha… more

• It's not big and it's not clever! From Barmaid2008 in Secret Diary of A Barmaid (244 days old)

  I sometimes ask myself (as I'm sure we all do) why I bother to go out and get so completely paraletic that I have nothing left from the night before except a radical drop in dignity, a huge hole in th… more

• Seeing clearly...but wish someone else would! From Barmaid2008 in Secret Diary of A Barmaid (268 days old)

  I've recently been made aware that a man doesn't have to be a love interest to be able to hurt you! Come on down - my sister's boyfriend!!! There are so many words I could call him, some which wouldn'… more

• Left outside alone... From Barmaid2008 in Secret Diary of A Barmaid (282 days old)

  There's an episode from SATC where MIranda goes to an engagement party and someone asks her if she's seeing anyone special. She replies no and then gets this look of pity. So she makes a joke saying t… more

• Older equals wiser! From Barmaid2008 in Secret Diary of A Barmaid (304 days old)

  After the dramatic events (okay, slight exaggeration) of my last blog, I am unsurprised to announce that I am still single and looking for the man who must be locked away in a castiron cage with no ho… more

• Testing the waters... From Barmaid2008 in Secret Diary of A Barmaid (347 days old)

  So I finally did it, I finally kissed him!! So if he didn't know before that I liked him , then he most definitely does now! I was working at the pub yesterday, only a 2pm-8pm shift but my god, … more

• A change of direction... From Barmaid2008 in Secret Diary of A Barmaid (359 days old)

  I have never really entertained the idea of dating a guy with a child. Not only because your imagination immediately drags up the image of a man in his thirties going squidgy at the edges, but also be… more

• Unable to forget....completely! From Barmaid2008 in Secret Diary of A Barmaid (538 days old)

  You know that feeling you get where that person you like is in the same room as you?? You don't even have to be talking to him but just knowing he's there means that you're having a better time?? I ho… more

• A woman's right to choose From Barmaid2008 in Secret Diary of A Barmaid (550 days old)

  Answer me this question... Why is it that when people find out that a woman has no desire to have children, people look at you like you have just asked if you can piss on their first born??? This … more

• Men, men and oh yeah, men!! From Barmaid2008 in Secret Diary of A Barmaid (554 days old)

  He was there, at the pub tonight. I knew he would be and I knew that once again we would slip back into our old habit of flirtation. I was good though, of that I'm quite proud, I'm serving people at t… more

• The secret..... From Barmaid2008 in Secret Diary of A Barmaid (560 days old)

  I know he'll never leave his girlfriend, of that I am certain. To be honest I think that I would run a mile if he did but there's something about him that keeps me wanting more, even after eight month… more

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