Secret Diary of A Barmaid

In response to:My past, present and future self...

Tue, 21 Jul 2009 01:38:44 +0200

Listen to your teenage self.. life is full of exciting things to come but you have to make it... be honest, brown eyes is not the excitement you really crave for... take away the alchohol element... is he worth the 'messing on you own doorstep' roulette?

In response to:New discoveries but old habits...

Thu, 04 Jun 2009 02:07:26 +0200

You 2 obviously 'click' together. Perhaps you attract the more mature guy (not necessarily mature as in age but maturity in attitude and personality) unfortunately they are not often single.

In response to:New discoveries but old habits...

Wed, 20 May 2009 15:05:45 +0200

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In response to:New discoveries but old habits...

Mon, 11 May 2009 16:01:37 +0200

Hey - don't worry too much about the morality of it, you're just a girl, if he wants to cheat its his perogative, as long as you don't get attached...and as long as he doesn't...

You will one day morph into girlfriend material, the way I find myself morphing into housewife material - I love cooking and cleaning these days.

I bet when you least expect it you'll meet a guy who makes you want to spend nights in.

In response to:New discoveries but old habits...

Mon, 11 May 2009 15:34:07 +0200

Well at least you know that you are not girlfriend material, which may save a lot of time in the long run.

If more people could discover what sort of person they really are and just accept it there may be more happines in the world.

And less Therapists.....

Which could only be a good thing.

In response to:Am I not making myself clear?

Sun, 19 Apr 2009 19:36:27 +0200

Sounds like you need a boyfriend, and quick! x

In response to:Will I ever learn?

Thu, 02 Apr 2009 10:27:33 +0200

Do any of us ever learn these kind of things? :))

In response to:Will I ever learn?

Sun, 29 Mar 2009 23:55:16 +0200

wow!

In response to:Seeing clearly...but wish someone else would!

Mon, 23 Mar 2009 15:17:55 +0100

I can't believe anyone would voluntarily stay with someone after being given chlamydia and worms for heavens sake?!!

he sounds disgusting

In response to:Will I ever learn?

Mon, 23 Mar 2009 13:55:02 +0100

Haha, we might have to settle for diminished responsibility then! lol x

In response to:Will I ever learn?

Mon, 23 Mar 2009 13:50:00 +0100

Oh thank you lol!
Somehow I think the heels and a body full of alcohol will act as evidence against me. But the offer was appreciated :P x

In response to:Will I ever learn?

Fri, 20 Mar 2009 17:30:43 +0100

Sounds like another action-packed evening!

Oh, regarding the leg/law-suit - I'm an accident investigator so feel free to PM me for any advice on how to go about it! lol x

In response to:It's not big and it's not clever!

Fri, 20 Mar 2009 17:26:14 +0100

Haha, a girl after my own heart!

In response to:It's not big and it's not clever!

Fri, 13 Mar 2009 19:32:23 +0100

LOL, true....oh it's all fun and whatever we've done we laugh about soon after ha. On the wine at the mo lol! What else are Friday nights for eh?

In response to:It's not big and it's not clever!

Fri, 13 Mar 2009 09:06:14 +0100

Haha, we've all been there....

In response to:Seeing clearly...but wish someone else would!

Thu, 12 Mar 2009 23:07:36 +0100

LOL, nah think it's best if I don't divulge the deatails - not pleasant but I'm sure you can imagine!x

In response to:Seeing clearly...but wish someone else would!

Mon, 02 Mar 2009 11:08:36 +0100

He could have had the Chlamydia for years as there are seldom symptoms in a man, however he sounds like a total fanny and I agree she would be well rid.

How the hell did he give her worms...no maybe you better not tell me.

In response to:Seeing clearly...but wish someone else would!

Sat, 28 Feb 2009 17:23:16 +0100

Whoa!! He's given her worms and chlamydia?!!! What more proof does she need that he's a cheating bully? Poor thing... Her self esteem must be very low. And from what you say classic Father Figure syndrome. Try to make her see sense about this situation before he gives her herpes or worse still AID's...

In response to:Seeing clearly...but wish someone else would!

Wed, 18 Feb 2009 20:32:29 +0100

I knew it would be. My family tolerated my ex wife for the sake of me. I wish I would have listened to them.

In response to:Seeing clearly...but wish someone else would!

Wed, 18 Feb 2009 18:23:54 +0100

I know but it's all easier said than done :( lol

In response to:Seeing clearly...but wish someone else would!

Tue, 17 Feb 2009 19:00:02 +0100

She needs a good kick in the ass, not a shoulder to cry on. Well maybe after she dumps his ass, but she really needs to move on.

In response to:Seeing clearly...but wish someone else would!

Tue, 17 Feb 2009 16:57:19 +0100

Have to admit, I had people telling me left, right and centre that I was dating a tosser and I'd agree but then he'd turn up on the doorstep and I'd get butterflies and lose any resolve I'd had to finish with him. I came round in my own time but it took a lot of my friends chipping away at me! I have my fingers crossed that she's shot of him soon! x

In response to:Seeing clearly...but wish someone else would!

Tue, 17 Feb 2009 16:24:44 +0100

Hey thanks but I've already tried the 'mature'talk thing. She agrees he's a shit, then 24 hours later she's back in his arms. It's weird, we lost our Dad 10 years ago and ever since she's always been really needy for male attention and I'm the one who pulls away from them. Bloody life eh? lol x

In response to:Seeing clearly...but wish someone else would!

Tue, 17 Feb 2009 16:22:12 +0100

I agree - tough love. I've been treated like crap by a bloke before and it was neediness not love. Thankfull, I think I deserve better now! Can't you get her to sit down and write a list of his positive and negative points? Maybe if the negative points outweigh the positives, she'll have a rethink....

In response to:Left outside alone...

Sat, 07 Feb 2009 00:03:31 +0100

I swing between feeling the same as you to feeling the complete opposite! I have my reasons I guess for being so indecisive on the whole "do I really want to be in a relationship?" thing but I have been on the receiving end of that look many times!

I have so much more freedom than my parent friends - why would I give that up? And I'm not going to settle for less than Mr almost perfect.... lol

In response to:Left outside alone...

Tue, 03 Feb 2009 23:25:10 +0100

Don't worry, I know what you're saying. I'm too damn fussy anyway. I'm one of 'those' people who won't settle for second best comfort and I'd much rather be single than in a bad relationship. Just having a little rant - makes you feel so much better lol!

In response to:Left outside alone...

Tue, 03 Feb 2009 16:22:10 +0100

The idea of needing company hits people at different ages. Some people just can't stand to be alone and others could care less. I wouldn't worry about being alone. When you are comfortable with yourself the right person will come along. Just don't try to rush it or you'll end up making mistakes, trust me.

In response to:Older equals wiser!

Tue, 13 Jan 2009 13:33:17 +0100

Ok good. I'll be watching with interest to see how your will power holds up!

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Ste

In response to:Older equals wiser!

Mon, 12 Jan 2009 18:25:56 +0100

LOL that's a definite no!

In response to:Older equals wiser!

Mon, 12 Jan 2009 12:10:22 +0100

Lol, is that you playing hard to get or a definitive 'NO!'?!

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Ste